Grief Can Overwhelm in the Holidays. Therapy Can Help.
The holidays can be one of the hardest times to grieve. While the world feels louder, brighter, and more focused on celebration, your loss can feel even heavier. Traditions change, empty chairs feel more visible, and the pressure to “be okay” can make grief feel lonelier than ever.
Grief isn’t something to fix or eliminate. It’s a natural response to loss. In Emotionally Focused Individual Therapy (EFIT), the goal isn’t to make grief disappear, but to help you move through it in a way that feels safer, more supported, and less isolating.
Grief is More than Death
Grief can come from many kinds of losses — not only the death of someone you love. People grieve:
- Relationships
- Divorce
- Lost dreams
- Health changes
- Addiction
- Loss of career
- Painful childhood experiences
If it mattered to you and it’s gone or changed, grief may be present.
How Grief Affects you
Grief touches your whole system:
- Body: sleep problems, appetite changes, numbness, dissociation
- Mind: brain fog, racing thoughts, “what if” questions, self-blame
- Emotions: sadness, anxiety, shame, anger, guilt, longing
- Spirit: questioning faith, feeling abandoned, or blaming yourself
These are common human responses to loss.
When Grief Gets Stuck
As with everything at the Well, we view grief through an attachment lens. We understand that grief becomes more painful when it can’t be safely expressed.
When there’s no one safe to turn to, people often shut down, stay strong, or avoid their pain.
Trauma isn’t the pain itself — it’s what happens when you have to face it alone.
“Genuine grief is the antidote to trauma.” Gabor Maté
You Don’t Have to Grieve Alone
Grief is not weakness. It’s a reflection of love and loss. With compassionate support, it’s possible to carry grief in a way that feels less isolating and more human.
We are here to help you process your grief. A free consultation is a great way to start.
